The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men

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The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men: From Honeymoon to Lasting Commitment

Tom Bruett
Published Date: 2025-03-21
ISBN: 1805012657
Page Count: 240

Gay relationships are different.

We might not have queer elders as role models, or have faced personal and societal trauma, or be experiencing a Second Queer Adolescence. We can't simply squeeze ourselves into the heteronormative structures we've been offered and expect to find happiness.

Weaving theory with personal experience and case studies, this workbook gives you the tools to build a rich, deep, gay relationship. Adapted from the Bader/Pearson developmental model of relationship therapy, and suitable for those practicing both monogamy and alternative relationship structures, this guide supports you from the first flush of the honeymoon to a place of real commitment.

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Beyond Personhood: An Essay in Trans Philosophy

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Beyond Personhood: An Essay in Trans Philosophy

Talia Mae Bettcher
Published Date: 2025-03-18
ISBN: 1517902576
Page Count: 312

A bold intervention in the philosophical concepts of gender, sex, and self

Beyond Personhood provides an entirely new philosophical approach to trans experience, trans oppression, gender dysphoria, and the relationship between gender and identity. Until now, trans experience has overwhelmingly been understood in terms of two reductive trans people are either “trapped in the wrong body” or they are oppressed by the gender binary. Both accounts misgender large trans constituencies while distorting their experience, and neither can explain the presentation of trans people as make-believers and deceivers or the serious consequences thereof. In Beyond Personhood, Talia Mae Bettcher demonstrates how taking this phenomenon seriously affords a new perspective on trans oppression and trans dysphoria—one involving liminal states of “make-believe” that bear positive possibilities for self-recognition and resistance.

Undergirding this account is Bettcher’s groundbreaking theory of interpersonal spatiality—a theory of intimacy and distance that requires rejection of the philosophical concepts of person, self, and subject. She argues that only interpersonal spatiality theory can successfully explain trans oppression and gender dysphoria, thus creating new possibilities for thinking about connection and relatedness. 

An essential contribution to the burgeoning field of trans philosophy, Beyond Personhood offers an intersectional trans feminism that illuminates transphobic, sexist, heterosexist, and racist oppressions, situating trans oppression and resistance within a much larger decolonial struggle. By refusing to separate theory from its application, Bettcher shows how a philosophy of depth can emerge from the everyday experiences of trans people, pointing the way to a reinvigoration of philosophy.

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English

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Nonfiction, Educational, Gender Studies

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Revolutionary Acts: Love and Brotherhood in Black Gay Britain

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Revolutionary Acts: Love and Brotherhood in Black Gay Britain

Jason Okundaye
Published Date: 2024
ISBN: 057137221X
Page Count: 304

In this landmark work, Jason Okundaye meets an elder generation of Black gay men and finds a spirited community full of courage, charisma and good humour, hungry to tell its past - of nightlife, resistance, political fights, loss, gossip, sex, romance and vulgarity. Through their conversations he seeks to reconcile the Black and gay narratives of Britain, narratives frequently cleaved as distinct and unrelated.

Tracing these men's journeys and arrivals to South London through the seventies, eighties and nineties from the present day, Okundaye relays their stories with rare compassion, listening as they share intimate memories and reflect upon their lives. They endured and fought against the peak of the AIDS epidemic, built social groups and threw underground parties; they went to war with institutions (and with each other) and created meaning within a society which was often indifferent to their existence.

Revolutionary Acts renders a singular portrait of Britain from the perspective of those buffeted by the winds of marginalisation and discrimination. It is a portrait marked by resilience and self-determination, inspired by the love and beauty Black men have found in each other.

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English

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Nonfiction, Historical 

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Who Is Amy Schneider?: Questions on Growing Up, Being Curious, and Winning It Big on Jeopardy!

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Who Is Amy Schneider?: Questions on Growing Up, Being Curious, and Winning It Big on Jeopardy!

Amy Schneider
Published Date: 2025
ISBN: 1665933054
Page Count: 256

A young readers edition of the inspirational and bold memoir from the most successful woman ever to compete on Jeopardy!—and an exploration of what it means to ask questions of the world and of yourself.

In eighth grade, Amy Schneider was voted “Most likely to appear on Jeopardy!” by her classmates. Decades later, she finally got her chance. Not only did Amy walk away with $1.3 million while captivating the world with her impressive forty-game winning streak, but she made history and won an even greater prize—the joy of being herself on national television and blazing a trail for openly queer and transgender people around the world. Now, she shares her singular journey that led to becoming an unlikely icon and hero to millions. Her boundless curiosity and fearless questioning.

Who Is Amy Schneider? shows kids that there isn’t a right way to be smart nor a wrong way to learn, that curiosity fuels passion, and that discovering your true self begins with asking yourself why?

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English

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Middle Grade, Memoir

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Queer Icons from Gay to Z. Activists, Artists & Trailblazers

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Queer Icons From Gay to Z: Activists, Artists & Trailblazers

Patrick Boyle
Published Date: 2019-09-10
ISBN: 1925811298
Page Count: 112

The LGBTQ+ community is a loving family. As such, this colorful book celebrates our most iconoclastic sisters and brothers (and gender-nonbinary friends) across history.

This beautiful book is an illustrated and alphabetic celebration of LGBTQ+ activists, artists, comedians, writers, philosophers, musicians, poets, and Olympic gold medalists. These icons of the queer community have collectively championed civil rights, radically increased queer visibility and provided a means of escapism through their soul-affirming artistry.

Just some of the trailblazers featured in Queer Icons from Gay to Z include Josephine Baker, Laverne Cox, Ellen DeGeneres, Keith Haring, Neil Patrick Harris, Marsha P Johnson, Harvey Milk, Martina Navratilova, Cynthia Nixon, Frank Ocean, Ruby Rose, and so on--all the way to Z. Loaded with trivia and factoids about each icon, this colorfully illustrated book unites pop-culture icons of the current day with the activists and revolutionaries who fought (sometimes literally to the death) for the right to be who they are, and the right to love whoever they damn well please.

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English

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Educational, Biography

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Drag: Combing Through the Big Wigs of Show Business

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Drag: Combing Through the Big Wigs of Show Business

Frank Decaro
Published Date: 2019-04-30
ISBN: 0847862356
Page Count: 256

Drag celebrates the fabulous current and historical influence of drag, and its talented and inspiring performers.

Since man first walked the Earth...in heels, no other art form has wielded as unique an influence on pop culture as Drag. Drag artists have now sashayed their way to snatch the crowns as the Queens of mainstream entertainment.


Through informative and witty essays chronicling over 100 years of drag, readers will embark on a Priscilla-like journey through pop culture, from television shows like The Milton Berle Show, Bosom Buddies, and RuPaul's Drag Race, films like Some Like It Hot, To Wong Foo..., and Tootsie, and Broadway shows like Hedwig and the Angry Inch, La Cage aux Folles, and Kinky Boots.
With stops in cities around the globe, and packed with interviews and commentaries on the dramas, joys, and love that "make-up" a life in wigs and heels, Drag features contributions from today's most groundbreaking and popular artists, including Bianca del Rio, Miss Coco Peru, Hedda Lettuce, Lypsinka, and Varla Jean Merman, as well as notable performers as Harvey Fierstein and Charles Busch. It includes more than 100 photos--many from performers' personal collections, and a comprehensive timeline of drag "herstory."

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English

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Adult, Educational, History

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Trans Hirstory in 99 Objects

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Trans Hirstory in 99 Objects

Frantz,David Evans (edt); Linden,Christina (edt); Vargas,Chris E. (edt)
Published Date: 2024
ISBN: 3777441082
Page Count: 288

A compelling exploration of trans art, activism, and resistance.
 
Spanning over four centuries, this volume brings together a wide-ranging selection of artworks and artifacts that highlight the under-recognized histories of trans and gender-nonconforming communities. Through the contributions of artists, writers, poets, activists, and scholars, this title reflects on historical erasure and imagines trans futures.

An expansive array of objects chart not a patriarchal history but a gender-neutral, trans-centric hirstory . The first publication of its kind, this survey celebrates trans forebearers, highlights struggles and triumphs, and reflects on the legacies of trans creative expression. Contributions by Kate Bornstein, Ria Brodell, Vaginal Davis, Leah DeVun, Mo B. Dick, Zackary Drucker, David Getsy, Martine Gutierrez, Andrea Jenkins, Jade Guarano Kuriki-Olivo (Puppies Puppies), Thomas (T.) Jean Lax, Abram J. Lewis, Miguel A. López, Amos Mac, Cyle Metzger, Deborah A. Miranda, Morgan M Page, SA Smythe, C. Riley Snorton, Dean Spade, Sandy Stone, Jeannine Tang, Michelle Tea, McKenzie Wark, and many others probe new horizons where institutional critique and trans culture meet. This book is copublished by the Museum of Trans Hirstory & Art (MOTHA), a conceptual art project of artist Chris E. Vargas that is forever “under construction” by design to allow continual transformation.

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The Little Book of Pride Heroes: Icons of the LGBTQIA+ Community

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The Little Book of Pride Heroes: Icons of the LGBTQIA+ Community

Jared Richards
Published Date: 2024
ISBN: 1923049100
Page Count: 108

A celebration of queer trailblazers!

This book is a celebration of LGBTQIA+ activists, artists, comedians, writers, musicians, and pop-culture giants who have shaped our worlds, expanded our horizons, and radically increased queer visibility.

Featuring trailblazing queer icons such as James Baldwin, George Michael, Frida Kahlo, George Takei, Elliot Page, Virginia Woolf, Leigh Bowery, and Divine, The Little Book of Pride Heroes is a colorfully illustrated homage to the power of pride and the enduring legacy of those who have fought for LGBTQIA+ rights.

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Young Adult, Educational, Biography

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Making the Case for Equality : 50 Years of Legal Milestones in LGBTQ History

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Making the Case for Equality: 50 Years of Legal Milestones in LGBTQ History

Lambda Legal
Published Date: 2024
ISBN: 1580936148
Page Count: 240

Over 30 landmark legal cases, from 1973 to 2023, that mark the most impactful and significant milestones in LGBTQ history Lambda Legal, the pioneering non-profit legal organization, is opening its archives for the first time to create a coffee-table book commemorating their 50th anniversary. The most important, ‘game-changing’ legal cases for the civil rights of the LGBTQ community are presented alongside a collection of curated archival material and historical images, chronicling the history and vital mission of the organization to advocate for the lives of LGBTQ people and people living with HIV.

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100 chefs d’œuvre de la littérature gay

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100 chefs d'œuvre de la littérature gay

Jeff Keller
Published Date: 2020
ISBN: 9791029404399
Page Count: 315
Que me conseillez-vous ?
 
Cette question, vous aimeriez la poser à votre libraire, sans forcément oser.
Il existe des milliers de références en littérature à thématique gay. Parmi elles se comptent quelques bijoux, des chefs-d’œuvre qui vont au-delà du gay par leur qualité d’écriture et au public auxquels ils s’adressent.
Faire une sélection, c’est promouvoir les grands classiques, intéresser le lecteur aux romans qui font date, à ceux qu’il lira d’une traite tant ils sont passionnants, également aux derniers succès dont seul le temps dira s’ils ont marqué leur époque.
 
Choisir 100 livres, c’est forcément faire un choix que Jeff Keller a fait en toute liberté et en toute intelligence. Il nous fait voyager dans le temps (jusqu’au XVIIIe avant Jésus-Christ !) et dans plus de 20 pays : France et États-Unis, bien sûr, jusqu’à des pays très récalcitrants à l’homosexualité: Chine, Cuba, Maroc.
 
100 chefs-d’œuvre de la littérature gay vous offre un panorama de tous les livres que vous devriez avoir lu si la culture gay vous intéresse.
Editions Textes gais.

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French

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